High self image is one of the main ingredients to getting everything you desire.

High self image is one of the main ingredients to getting everything you desire. So what does “high self image” even mean? It means you literally know that you’re the sh*t in every area of life. And not in an egotistical, cocky way, that’s just an act to cover up how low your self image actually is. What I’m talking about is the deep, humble knowing, that you’re the most unique, valuable human being on Earth. This type of genuine high self image isn’t loud, it doesn’t need approval, it doesn't need to show off online or anywhere else for that matter. No, it’s just the innate knowing that you’re capable of every single thing you set your mind to.

Now, I don’t know any human who has perfect self image across the board, otherwise why would we incarnate, right? Our souls come here to have a human experience involving emotions and limiting beliefs and our purpose comes from solving the puzzle of which low self image blocks we individually have. We choose the experiences that are going to highlight those limitations for us so we can remember why we are here and then take the actions to learn, grow and evolve beyond them.

In the bible, it says that God made us each in his image. Clearly we don’t all look the same, so what does that actually mean? My best guess is that it means, if God is the Creator of all, then we must be mini Creators. Which is true. Our subconscious mind is programmed from the ages of 0-7 (give or take), we then continue living the rest of our lives in the programmed reality from those initial 7 years, and one day realize that there are parts of this that don’t feel good anymore. Low self-image programming is why.

For example, when I was a toddler my parents separated and my dad moved away, leaving my mom to raise my brother and me. At the age of 3, I decided that must mean that I’m unwanted and if I was different my dad would have stayed. This low-self image, limiting belief was programmed into my subconscious mind, and began magnetizing experiences in my life to prove that story true. So when I was in high-school and I started dating, I kept magnetizing to me, people who would leave me for someone else. At that time, I wasn’t aware of this programming running in the background. I just thought something was wrong with me. It took a series of relationships going increasingly worse, for me to finally realize that “I DESERVE BETTER”. I decided I was no longer going to allow someone to mistreat me and if they did I had no problem walking away. Once I had this shift, I began attracting people who wanted to treat me well, and did. It took me a couple tries before arriving in my current relationship to test that I was going to keep my word to myself and walk away if they mistreated me, or if it was misaligned. It wasn’t until my current relationship that I did a somatic repatterning session that opened my eyes fully to that story playing in the background that I was unwanted.

This story only speaks to how low self image affected me in the Social area of life, there are 7 more areas that could have limiting programs running. So even if you can’t fully relate to that story, but you’re experiencing something negative in another area of life, it translates all the same. There is a low self image program running in your subconscious mind and until you become aware and choose to shift it, you’ll keep experiencing the same scenarios over and over again. This is just the universes way of getting your attention, letting you know that you have a limiting belief, and that you have the power to change it. Low self image, limiting beliefs are never the truth about you. They are just stories that snuck in there a young age due to your environment.

I’m sharing this to inspire you to take control of your life, step into your mini Creator power, and manifest the life you truly desire! Awareness is always the first step. If you want to know what limiting belief is wreaking the most havoc on your life right now, I offer complimentary intuitive reads for that, you can get yours here.

If you made it to the end if this article, you’re meant for more, and your dreams and desires prove that. You can have it all, you just have to take the first step.

-Emma